Couples Therapy in Lone Tree, CO
Stuck in the same fight, or drifting further apart? You don’t have to figure it out alone.
Marriage counseling and couples therapy in person in Lone Tree, CO, or by video anywhere in Colorado and Tennessee.
15 minutes · No cost · No commitment
I usually reply the same day. If I'm not the right fit, I'll tell you and do my best to point you somewhere better.
Currently accepting new couples · Call or text (720) 802-8548
Maybe you can pinpoint the moment it changed.
Maybe you just woke up one day and realized you’d been drifting for a while.
You might be feeling:
Like you're having the same argument on repeat, and nothing ever really resolves
Old wounds that never quite healed that are impacting your connection
Emotionally disconnected: present in the same house, absent from each other
A breach of trust that changed things, and you're not sure what comes next
Intimacy that has quietly faded, emotionally, physically, or both
Like you're facing separation and don't know whether to fight for it or let go
Engaged or newly married, and wanting to build something solid from the start
Sometimes the strain comes from outside: a demanding job, a new baby, an illness, a loss, a move.
Relationship work is some of the hardest and most rewarding work there is. It asks something of both people. What I bring into that room is a genuine belief that most relationships have more repair available than either person can see from where they're standing, and the skill to help you find it.
I'm not here to referee.
Most couples arrive with two stories about what's wrong, and each person quietly hoping I'll agree with theirs. I usually don't take a side. Instead I look for the pattern you're both caught in: the way one of you pushes and the other pulls away, or the conversation that turns into the same fight every time. The pattern is usually the problem, not either of you.
I'm active in the room. I'll slow a conversation down, ask the question neither of you has asked, and tell you honestly what I'm seeing. I'll do it kindly, but I won't just nod along.
I also won't decide for you whether you stay together. Some couples come in to rebuild. Some come in to find out whether rebuilding is possible. Both are good reasons to start.
What sessions look like
Sessions are usually 50 minutes, in my Lone Tree office or by video. I may recommend a few extended sessions early on to get traction as soon as possible. I’ll discuss it with you.
Most couples start weekly, then space sessions out as things steady.
The first session is about understanding: what brought you in, how each of you sees it, and what you want to be different.
Depending on what you're facing, I may also meet with each of you individually once early on. We'll talk about how that works before it happens.
Meet Stacey
I'm Stacey Haslam, MFTC. I've been married over twenty-five years, and we've raised five children together. A good deal of what I understand about relationships, I didn't learn in a classroom. I know firsthand that a strong marriage isn't one without hard seasons.
If faith matters to you, it's welcome in the room, and your beliefs will be treated with respect. If it doesn't, it won't come up.
The practical details
Fee: $180 per 50-minute session. If cost is a concern, please bring it up on our free call. We'll talk through options together.
Insurance: Superbills (itemized receipts you can submit to your plan) provided for possible out-of-network reimbursement.
Privacy: Paying privately means no diagnosis is sent to your insurance company, unless you choose to submit a superbill for reimbursement.
Good Faith Estimate: Because you're paying privately, you'll get a written estimate of expected costs before we begin.
In person: 9896 Rosemont Avenue, Suite 104, Lone Tree, CO 80124
By video: Anywhere in Colorado or Tennessee. You'll need to be physically located in one of those states during each session.
Your partner doesn't have to be ready for you to start.
It's common for one person to reach out first. Sometimes the other partner joins later. Sometimes they don't, and the work you do on your own still changes how the two of you relate.
If you're the one reading this, the free consultation is a good place to start. We'll talk through what makes sense for your situation.
Questions couples ask
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We start with what brought you in and how each of you sees it. I’ll ask about your history together, what’s been working, and what you want to be different. You don’t need to prepare anything or have the right words. My goal is to begin identifying patterns that are showing up in the relationship. Most couples leave the first session with a clearer picture of what’s going on between them.
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Patterns that have built up over years take real work to change. That's honest. It's also true that couples who show up ready to do that work often see meaningful progress earlier than they thought possible. Most couples start weekly, and we'll check in regularly so you're never guessing.
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Yes. Many people start alone, and the work you do can change the relationship even if your partner never joins. If they decide to come later, we'll talk about how to make that transition well. Start with a free call.
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I can't answer that from a web page, and I won't pretend to. Many couples wait longer than they should before reaching out, and that's common. You also don't have to decide whether to stay before you start. Figuring that out can be part of the work.
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Insurance usually pays only when one person has a diagnosis, and relationship distress on its own often doesn't qualify. Sessions are $180/50 minutes. I don't bill insurance, but I can give you a superbill to submit for possible out-of-network reimbursement. Check with your plan first.
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Start with a conversation
Fifteen minutes, in my office or by phone or video, at no cost. It isn't a session. It's a chance for you, or both of you, to ask questions and see whether working together feels right. If I'm not the right fit, I'll tell you, and I'll do my best to point you somewhere better.
Prefer to write first? hello@healingisgolden.com
Prefer to call or text? (720) 802-8548
In crisis? Call or text 988. This practice can't respond to emergencies.